Look at the weather. It might be sunny and bright right now, but it will change soon. There will be rain and thunder. Just like the weather, people can change too.
The worst feeling is not getting back the attention that you give someone. When this happens, we tend to push away the people who actually care about us. Not all people who are special to you think of you the same way. Someone can be a whole chapter in your book, and you might just be a single line in theirs.
It’s not healthy if you feel like you’re the only one putting in effort. If you feel like there’s never a conversation unless you start one, it shows that the other person does not care. When you realise that you’re constantly treating someone a lot better than they treat you, then it’s probably time to let new people in.
I’m pretty sure there’s one person who texts you every day, but you just ignore them because you’re finding ways to talk to someone who doesn’t deserve your time. Don’t move away from the people you care about. Instead, try being with people who care about you too.
I know it hurts when someone makes you feel happy one day and unwanted the next. Someday, you will realise that there are some people you’ll never see the same way again. It’s sad how people you were once super close to can become nothing more than hi-and-bye friends.
Surround yourself with people who will be there for you without needing to be asked. Stop texting the person who always leaves you on read. Don’t allow someone to treat you poorly just because you love them.
Change is constant. Everything eventually changes — the sky, the stars, the buildings, the city, and even the people around you. So don’t wait for someone who isn’t going to be there. Be around people who make you feel special and wanted, always.
Always choose people who choose you.
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– 𝚂𝚑𝚒𝚟𝚊𝚗𝚒 𝙰𝚛𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚍
Shivani Arvind 